Tag Archive for: playing hard to get

Is it best to be loved more in a relationship »

Often the saying goes that “it is better to be with someone who loves you more than someone you love”. Sounds so right at first consideration but really, why would anyone want to have someone love them more than they are willing to love in a relationship?

Most people definitely will find this very appealing as it makes one seem safe in the relationship. This reassuring feeling comes from feeling that if he/she loves you more, it will be difficult for them to hurt you after they are lucky to have you in their life. …Continue Reading »

Is Love’s Bewildering Bewitchment Irresistible »

In today’s fast paced society, it is ironical to find that while the rate of people getting married is drastically falling (59 percent – down from 62 percent in 1990, 72 percent in 1970), the rate of divorce is instead on the rise (10 percent – up from 8 percent in 1990, 6 percent in 1980).

What could be the cause of this societal ill that is wrecking the very fabric of our family and communal existence? A simple truth would be that when the love that any union is founded upon gives way to distrust, arguments and constant bickering, the ultimately end is an inevitable breakup or divorce. …Continue Reading »

Things You Can Do When He Doesn’t Love You Back »

Most people find it easier sticking around in a one-sided relationship, believing that their spouse will one day come to his/her senses rather than just walk away. For ladies, this is truer as many feel that because their guy has not made any move to end the relationship shows that he may still be committed to it to some degree. But the truth of the matter is that most guys dislike confrontation so much that they rather just hang on in to the relationship than be the one to call it quit. This holds true because accordingly to a Harvard University study of about 231 Boston couples, women were often the ones who suggested the separation. …Continue Reading »

How to Tell If You Are in Love »

This is perhaps the biggest question that can be asked in a relationship. And for sure, for the larger population, this is not an easy one to just give a yes or no answer. What is it that really gives you the assurance that you are truly in love? …Continue Reading »

6 Traits Men Look for in a Girlfriend »

Somehow, there must be some sort of traits that attract most men to their girlfriends. Traits they find alluring and exciting making them to want to possess her and be her man. Does that sound unrealistic? Not exactly! …Continue Reading »

What to do if you are in Love but are afraid the feeling isn’t Mutual Love »

You wonder to yourself, am I the only one feeling this way or does he/she feel just about the same way as I do? You are in a situation where you just can’t help feeling that you are in love with this person but the person seems not to return your love? Does your love have to be mutual before you can say it is love?

A load of questions you’d say but this is the situation a lot people today find themselves. And believe you me – it can really be a difficult one to get out of with a cool head. …Continue Reading »

The Art of Seducing Your Lover »

Seduction as mostly defined is the act of persuading somebody to have sex, especially by using a romantic or deceptive approach. When seducing a lover in a committed relationship, this can easily spice up the relationship and rekindle the embers of fire in the relationship to a completely new height. …Continue Reading »

Playing Hard to Get »

It is surprising how certain things, concepts, and ideologies that appear mysterious and elusive by nature tend to fascinate and intrigue the human mind arousing such feelings of awe and interest. The human mind is inquisitive by nature and that is why concepts and ideas such as God, creation, the weather, human nature, male-female relationships are all things that are beautiful, very real but still so difficult to fully understand and pin down thus arousing such great interest. …Continue Reading »

Tips for Playing Hard to Get »

As a sequel to our earlier discussion on playing hard to get, we will in this piece talk about how to create and negotiate the conditions that allows the pursuer to see what is on offer, choose it and act to acquire it. …Continue Reading »